I lost my husband of 21 years the day after his 66th birthday on April 28th of this year. I lent my ex-boyfriend £3,000 and now he won't pay me back. I am now 2 years divorced. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago and I still think about her every week, if not every day. I was saved 6 years ago. I am struck by the number of postings here. I feel sometimes that I am inside a movie because is so surreal. I always said if you love someone let them go; if it’s true love they will come back. The 12 Definite Signs That Your Ex Wants to Get Back Together after 42 years i still think he does. I had a good friend and she helped me through the hard times and a few months after the breakup we became a couple and plan to marry, but I still think of my ex. But this year he suddenly begin to notice me again and we are in the different class now. I have dreams back to back about him. Real Student Debt Stories Struggling mother trying to pay loan 32,000. I do miss many positive attributes about him and how he made me feel. 9 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Texting You. I have a new partner now, but she hasn’t met nor am I expecting her to meet my (ex-?)wife’s side of the family. Started talking, he hung out well call aaron, who i met a decent girl of 2008. So if you’re feeling confused here are a few signs that you aren’t still in love with your ex, even if you think that you are. Many years ago my family owned a diner, where the man who hurt me was a regular. just for short chat. he swore he would change, he owns his own business and worked 7 days a week for like 12 hours a day and would be too tiered to do anything after cept for maybe. I then many years later, decided to lightly date a married man from Ashley-Madison. ,” Elite Daily’s new advice column that shares the tough love your friends are too afraid to give you. My ex-husband had been suffering from PTSD ever since he was called to his first deployment to IRAQ after 9-11 happened. A First Love Found Me on Facebook 30 Years Later. I think that he likes me because he see me whenever he goes out of my class. Yes the DISEASE. Thompson started seeing the thing blocking us. At first I was very hurt and depressed, missed him terribly, was counting on getting back together, and couldn't imagine ever being attracted to or dating anyone again. Am i intitled to anything from this?. I am glad to hear that you feel the same way. Learning how to make your ex want you back is not easy, especially if you have seen that he or she has already moved on and they are already dating someone else. 40 Years after Our Fling, Why Can't I Forget about Her? I have tried everything I can think of to remove her from my thoughts. I have no closure, and I think that's why I think about him all the. It wasn't until I saw him years later that I found out why he never came backmy parents told him not to. i have dreams that he is trying too find me too but we can not find each other. My boyfriend doesn’t think I am leaving, he just thinks I am “spring cleaning. He was an infantry man, he had served 3 tours of duty in IRAQ with his 15 1/2 years of service in the Army. and I am sure the reason that I still think of him was that I. I broke up with him , not because I didn't love him but for other reasons. The circumstances were different, but for much of my childhood, all of my teen years, and into my adult life, my mother treated me much more like a girlfriend than her child in regards to what she shared with me about my Dad (before and after their divorce). I am an active and a very energetic person with many interests, and i like hanging out with people, an extrovert. he moved 4 hours away to stay by his parents. we were together only for like 2 months. Would a wife think the ex. He says he soesnt want to be with me and that I am annoying. You need to cope with the pain of rejection and and move forward in your life…but you also need time to grieve the loss of your relationship. I confronted her and she said he found her on Facebook and she gave him her phone number. One year ago ex dumped me after 4 years together, my grandma died last year and my lovely dog girl I was so attached to, my only friend, this year. At the age of 58, I joined a dating site--. My ex and I have been in contact for about 3 months. so finally he signed for a divorce and left. For 2 years in my new relationship my ex would message me every couple of months and told me that in the future he knew we’d be together. Dear Abby: I’m upset that my wife had an affair 40 years ago Recently, while going through some old boxes in the basement, I ran across her diary and discovered that she had an affair while we. She was my high-school girl friend for 3 years 30 years ago. You might think that you've moved on — and really believe it — but, suddenly, you realize that you're still thinking about your ex. Their Dad passed away 10 years ago…I had short relationships here and there & actually 5 years ago, I was engaged…that ended badly & I’ve been alone ever since. I moved on but it was really hard. The divorce settlement was equitable. So how long can a creditor chase the debt? A question that I often come across from people struggling to pay their debts is “how long can my creditors chase me?”. ,” Elite Daily’s new advice column that shares the tough love your friends are too afraid to give you. I don't go out of my way to think about my ex, it just happens. Only in the last couple of years it has worn off but I do still think of that overpowering love every time certain songs come on the radio or the mood strikes me. I have no closure, and I think that's why I think about him all the. My wife did not tell me about this. He makes me out to be the bad person. The effects of sexual rejection on a marriage relationship - One spouse refusing or withholding sex may cause anger or frustration in the short term, but over time it can ruin a marriage. Was a mixture of his untreated depression and immense credit-card debt he accumulated behind my back. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 5months ago we were toghter for over a year and since then i have been in a very perfect realtionship with someone else, but everynight for the past 2 weeks i been having dreams of my ex boyfriend. At first I was very hurt and depressed, missed him terribly, was counting on getting back together, and couldn't imagine ever being attracted to or dating anyone again. Before marrying my man, I thought it will be okay, that his ex has her own world and would rather be on her own. Christie Brinkley’s ex-husband, Peter Cook, is engaged. Being friends with your ex boyfriend on Facebook can be complicated, especially if you still have feelings for him. then he went out of my mind. Initially, you might think that it is nothing, but then it happens again and again every night. You both know the same group of people. Yes! I hadn’t seen dad in my dreams for a long time, but he was there recently. She asked, "Shelly, why am I painfully going back-and-forth with my ex-boyfriend? Why can't I just move on?! My heart aches when I think about the life I'm missing out on because I'm holding onto something that doesn't make me happy. It was your typical hot and heavy high-school relationship. So, about 6 months ago my ex and i broke up. I was stuck on my Ex like it was my full-time job. He compared me to her and other women. My ex and I remained friends, even talked about other people in our lives. Insecurities From The Past I'm 23 and about a year ago I gave birth to my first child. We are always friendly in my dreams and he’s always trying to tell me something and is very kind or holding my hand. The adrenaline you feel even thinking all the firsts you shared with him is only natural. He broke up with me almost 2 years ago because I showed my face on the camera a lot for other men to view, this is what he just told me why he broke up with me, this made him very upset and made the decision. No contact for 3 years. Of course I hoped he would still find me as beautiful and captivating as he did twenty years ago, but I also knew that what I missed the most about David over these years was our friendship and how much he made me laugh. I remember he mentioned he loves me but I didn’t mind it cause I really don’t wanna know or feel it cause the truth is we just can’t be together. That's you exploring that. My son and daughter-in-law have been married for four years and they have an 8 month old son – our first beautiful grandbaby! We have a very good relationship – get along really well. I can’t stop feeling guilty when I called the police on my ex 6 years ago when he almost got violent. I still have my Ex initial and my initial on my arm from years ago. Fellow exlover here. Since we broke up this experience of missing her comes and goes in waves. #1 You run in the same friendship circles. That was something I know I would not have gotten over. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago and I still think about her every week, if not every day. He was my first love and I still love him. Normal meaning a girl who just lost her brother to this disease a year ago. My wife said it was over with the lover three months ago but she has admitted that he texts her once in awhile. I didn't understand why I was so affected, but I am, my husband now was very supportive, and held me while I cried. It was the day I finally let go of my Ex and started a new life. Never married (I am very. He died in his sleep. We’re starting from zero. Breakups are tough, but the words that kept playing over and over in my head were, "I'm thinking about how he's not thinking of me at all. just for short chat. I am 59 years old and I haven't been in a physical relationship for more than 15 years. I am like you, it is very difficult to let go. I still get sad over my little Pumpkin hamster who went to the great wheel in the sky a year ago too. My boyfriend broke up with me 3 years ago and during that time I tried to live my life, I met new people, tried to date other guys but I couldn't. I read your response to The In-Law Tug of War recently and I’m hoping you can help me on a related subject. A year is the orbital period of the Earth moving in its orbit around the Sun. I am in love with my 19 year old boyfriend also, and I am 41. Welcome to my monstrously large list of signs your ex isn't over you. One I left 2 years ago and the other I left 5 years ago. In addition, I am surprised to hear that Masnick used to be against Title II a decade ago but now is for it; if anything, the competitive situation today is much better than it was ten years ago. No all I could do now is couse pain to my wife, my ex and a child who has never met me. With Lynn, it’s Chapter 2. I’m trying to come to your way of thinking. Ex-DHS Chief Nielsen Reveals Why She Resigned 2019 7:55 AM CDT. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. My ex bf broke up almost 4 months ago after 3 years and the first month involved him initiating contact to see how I am and what im up to but he's not okay, depressed which I think was the cause of the break up because he'd lose his temper and assume it was because we didn't work and not so much his depression. I have now been able to separate from him and seek therapy and begin recovery. Would a wife think the ex. Some people are frightened or confused by the thoughts, memories, and dreams that occur, as they think remembering on old relationship means they’ve made a mistake in their current partner choice or that they haven’t moved on. " While tapping my phone calls, I was always a jealous person but was certain that she would never be unfaithful, I discovered a call. We had a four year relationship and were engaged. Blocked me, She treated me badly after we broke up. Two years ago, on Mother's Day I sat across from my husband at our kitchen table, I mean the kitchen table he and his ex-wife bought for their house, I mean our house and cried. We had a happy relationship, but our lives were too different to see a future together. I have been engaged a couple of times since but never made it back to the altar. We never say " Hi or bye " when we see each other. Now after 3 years I told him that I loved him cause we met and my place and everything was so nice. Why does my ex want to be friends? well, what possible motives could your ex have for wanting to remain friends? After all, as you’re about to see, remaining friends after a breakup is fraught with danger. When you keep seeing the same person in your dream every day, it can be disconcerting at first. We just broke up a month ago and we are trying to co-parent our two year old son. I was told by a medium that she had passed and that she is with me – that was about 12 years ago. That was over 31 years ago. I’ve cheated on my now finace almost a year ago and it. I know what you’re thinking, “Of course I want (insert ex’s name here)’s relationship to fail, because I love him/her and I want them to be with me!”. Nostalgia is powerful. So my world was falling apart. My ex wife has a new boyfriend. I think she has moved on but I am still in the past. I still have my Ex initial and my initial on my arm from years ago. the night we broke up was very emotionnal, obviously. I was told in therapy that I deserved a medal, that without me my spouse would have been buried years ago. i was broke with my ex one year ago but i cheated him by faking my fb account due my own disability and now i am trying to convince that though i am disabled but love comes by god grace only. That’s why I wrote, What to Do Immediately When Your Husband Leaves You and then followed that up with this article. ’” Loewenberg warns that couldn’t be further from the truth: “That’s you wanting that. So in my typical fashion, I’m going to buck the trend and say that, YES, if you’re doing it for the right reasons, you should apologize to an ex. They have lifted him up on a pedestal and I can’t do anything right I was the one that was there for them for the last 17 years I’m feeling so hurt. Cheating and infidelity has been taboo for years, and it use to be a subject that wasn't openly discussed. I know the EXACT reason as to why I feel this way. My ex boyfriend who at the time i considered my best friend broke up with me almost a year ago. i don't have much money, basic job, and she said she wanted to meet a man with good job and prospects. I was recently contacted on FB by my ex from 28 years. I am obtaining my doctorate degree (Yeah to be a doctor) and my school costs over $21000 per year to attend. Now I am married with a daughter and a newborn on the way. So, now we've been together for almost 4 years and we've been talking about marriage. Normal meaning a girl who just lost her brother to this disease a year ago. my boyfriend Slay Scot left me for another girl for three months’ ever since then my life have been filled with pains sorrow and heart break because he was my first love who dis virgin me when i was 21 years old. The strange collaboration between Metallica and Lou Reed on the artsy, outré, double-album Lulu remains as perplexing today as polarizing. I let a man control my life and just ran him off and I have done so much to get him back into my life I would do anything but a lot is my fault. He helped me to meet this new love in my life - not so new, our one year anniversary is next week. Mark Zuckerberg has been making the rounds defending Facebook's decision not to fact-check or censor political ads, saying he doesn't feel the social media site should be in the business of. Fellow exlover here. My wife said it was over with the lover three months ago but she has admitted that he texts her once in awhile. Nostalgia is powerful. Many years ago my family owned a diner, where the man who hurt me was a regular. The more you think about your ex, the less you are thinking about yourself and what is best. You can stop ruminating about the past - and you can rebuild your life, renew your heart, and restore your. I am trying to learn acceptance and forgiveness. Whenever we get into an argument, he will still throw the infidelity in my face. now I have a new bf. Started talking, he hung out well call aaron, who i met a decent girl of 2008. My pastor is the most awesome pastor I have ever found. Most women have their first mammogram at 40 years old. Three years ago, my ex husband wouldn’t take my phone calls, screamed at me when he talked to me, allowed the woman he lives with to treat me terribly and blamed everything that has gone bad on me. When Should I Contact My Ex Girlfriend? This is just long enough so that your ex isn't thinking you still want her back. I was devastated but young and although it was so hard I carried on with my life, dated others and eventually met a long term boyfriend who I am still with. ) That he could even see me online as I thought he deleted me from his list like I did years ago (not an online bf for clarification). Even if many years have passed. "I felt like there was a lot I could do, hence why I came up. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. Not been with my ex wife for about 2 and a half years. I am also married and have children. I am leaving him and he does not know it. Five years ago my husband of 10 years left me for his mistress. ” LOL Like all the times he was “going to AA”–yeah, sitting outside in the parking lot. During the day i do NOT think about my ex boyfriend i am over him. But after all these years, I am not a better person for having left him, and I still love him. When we first got together 7 years ago this female contacted him via email to allegedly catch up. My husband did the same several years ago and I still can't let go of it. My mother died 2 years ago, my insane step thing is still in my life, my 25 year marriage is over, I do Reiki, and practice gratitude daily. I Asked My Ex 29 Questions About Our Relationship 29 Questions For My Ex: "What Do You Think We Lacked In Our Sex Life?" Sarah Raphael. Life With A Crazy Psycho Obsessive Stalker Ex – Part III. But I love my boyfriend so much right now. Why am I thinking about my ex almost 2 years later? I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, everything is great, in fact he's not what made me come back here at all. The divorce settlement was equitable. Ignore, Ignore, Ignore, My ex had this, contact from an old gf from 20 years ago, i encouraged the contact as i thought there was nothing wrong with it. I just went to Venice with my ex. In the five years since my ex and I launched our site, co-parenting101. My first "real" boyfriend in college who I had been with for two years had once blubbered while we watched Jules et Jim because it was his ex's favorite movie — an ex who left him because. “He Was on the Ropes”: Richard Nixon’s Saturday Night Massacre Was 46 Years Ago “These things don’t happen in America. In my opinion, he should be reunited with his wife and put the family back together. I broke up with him , not because I didn't love him but for other reasons. But after all these years, I am not a better person for having left him, and I still love him. i was sufering from hsv2 since a year ago because of that my husband began to loose interest in me and started acting strange he started coming home late and many more. I still get angry when I think about the whole thing, but I am MUCH happier now! I recently found out my ex of four. She was mean, didn't want to talk to me. I have always struggled with weight issues. The background check questions asked if I had been convicted of anything in the past 7 years. So, about 6 months ago my ex and i broke up. in my marriage last year when my wife’s ex from 20+ years ago. A reader writes: I’m not really sure how to explain how I feel after losing my ex-spouse a month ago—especially since he died the same day I was having major surgery. My wife of 25 years died 3 1/2 yrs ago. we were very close too each other but the reasons why ? at lease one good reanson why ? we broke up was because his x-girlfriend and , this guy that i was madly in love with at the. I think she must be possessed by the devil to behave like this. could i be pregant and still have a period. This is a dangerous behavior because it can turn compulsive fast. But as good a college player as Fall was, Dawkins sees his growth curve as a basketball player continuing to grow now that he’s on the cusp of being an NBA player. He tells me that his ex was not a quitter, I am a quitter and how I leave out of my marriage within 2 years (my marriage I recently got out was abusive). I am someone who was married for more than 20 years. I haven't met my boyfriend's child, why not? Typically, they want to meet and spend time with the kids, but their boyfriend-or the children's mother-isn't open to the. Why is it that writers/experts write as if the narcissistic ex is usually the man? My narcissistic ex-wife is making my life, and the lives of our three children, a destabilizing, living hell! I spent $70K trying to end this marriage (because she dragged out every aspect of the process) and now I am broke, and still miserable. After 19 years, I still don’t fully know why my ex left me and our one-year old after only 4 years of marriage. last 2 months had me blocked on facebook. Welcome to “Try Me. im going through the same thing my husband had a vesectomy 12 years ago with his ex wife. That's you exploring that. Maybe you first notice something is wrong when your normally clear-as-a-bell voice gets a little bit husky. My ex boyfriend who at the time i considered my best friend broke up with me almost a year ago. I trust my past self's judgment - she was much closer to the situation than I am now. ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. But is it likely that the guy is also thinking of her? Where I am sitting right now I don't even think my ex thinks about me as I sent him a really heartfelt message a week ago and he ignored it He hasn't messaged me at all, apart from one message after the break up to make sure I didn't think he was a bad person. A couple of years ago an ex of mine, with whom things did not end well at all, moved into my apartment. I do not want pity for my story but want to inform people on this horrible disease. LeeAnn, thanks for commenting. Wow! I can relate to every word in your article. In the five years since my ex and I launched our site, co-parenting101. My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now we no more. Fellow exlover here. I feel so many emotions, sadness, guilt, confusion but oddly no anger. My break-up is very recent so it’s hard to say how it will end up. Hello my name is mariana wahba from toronto canada am here to share a real live testimony on how i got my ex back and cured of hsv2. He is my first true love (we dated for a year and 2. Well, I met my ex online from a chatroom. Now he’s remarried with two young stepchildren and two younger biological children. My ex-wife worked at a state job for 30 years and receives a whopping pension of $4,000 per month. He is a naturally creative person who went to school for fine art/illustration and got a second degree in graphic design. Why am I thinking about my ex almost 2 years later? I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, everything is great, in fact he's not what made me come back here at all. The only hand I needed was my own. No matter what I tried to do to win him back, he ghosted me completely. I do every one of these and NO I am never going to get over my ex! I spent every day for a year with him and we were going to get married and this is someone who loses interest in a guy very quickly and I know for fact I’m never going to find anyone like him because I usually leave after about a. about two years ago, A friend of mine kido matthew told me he saw some testimonies of. My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now we no more. My boyfriend broke up with me 3 years ago and during that time I tried to live my life, I met new people, tried to date other guys but I couldn’t. ambassador to Ukraine by President Trump Donald John Trump Trump says. It worked! I immediately went on estrogen-alone therapy. I can't work I have a 19 y/o son autistic and schizophrenic. Yes the DISEASE. (Granted, it was a pretty hot and steamy year). Growing up, I really never understood what a thyroid was, or what it meant when I told people that I didn’t have one. So my dilemma is this, I just recently discovered that my husband has been communicating with his ex-girlfriend via facebook and email. What Is the Right Thing to Do When an Old Lover Connects with You Online? Now I am thinking I should have sought counseling before. i dream about my high school boyfriend every at least 3 nights out of the week. My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now we no more. I e-mail my first love a little, but keep it light. My ex and I broke up 1 and a half year ago. Who did not care about me very much. But there are certain things you can do that'll make you feel even worse, like checking your ex's Facebook page over and over again or sitting at home by yourself and wallowing in your pain. Why It's OK To Still Be Affected By A Breakup Years Later when you miss or even think about a toxic ex, but here is why it's OK to still be slightly affected by a breakup even years after the. Long ago, there was this one relationship where my philosophy failed. We talk about almost everything from sports, his family/wife, jobs, etc but nothing serious. They asked to do a background check and I agreed. While doing my research for this article, I found the general answer to this question was, NO. I truly have no "big ticket" complaints about my husband. A lot of us may have asked the question, "Why am I thinking about my ex?" either to ourselves or to someone we trust. My wife and I separated 8 weeks ago after 25 years of marriage. I haven't met my boyfriend's child, why not? Typically, they want to meet and spend time with the kids, but their boyfriend-or the children's mother-isn't open to the. Now, 40 years later, I am coming apart at the seams and believe. and lately i have been very naueas and i actually throwed last sunday at work and i have been having head aches and back aches and my period is not normal. Two years ago, on Mother's Day I sat across from my husband at our kitchen table, I mean the kitchen table he and his ex-wife bought for their house, I mean our house and cried. I am thinking it has now spread to my rectum because I am bleeding even when I sit down to urinate. It’s been 21 days since we last talked. I received an email on Friday from a woman who has been divorced for three years. I wish I had a good reason for ending the relationship. I asked to see her phone bill and she would not disclose. I love him and can see a great future with him, but all of a sudden, I'm thinking about my ex again. SEATTLE/WASHINGTON (Reuters) - Boeing Co said on Sunday it understood the outcry over leaked messages from a former test pilot over erratic software behavior on its 737 MAX jet two years before recent crashes, and added it was still investigating what they meant. But after all these years, I am not a better person for having left him, and I still love him. I think it's a good step and it sounds like they're trying to get the right people in the room to figure out what's the parameters or best case to move forward. anyways he was just over eveything inlcuding his life style and job and said he wanted a “new life a new start”. where your ex had the. Now that I am about to turn 62 and am thinking of retiring, I'm paying more attention to. A couple of years ago an ex of mine, with whom things did not end well at all, moved into my apartment. You are on my mind; please know that I am here for you if you need help. I saw your Proverbs 31 devotion in my email this morning and it spoke directly to my heart. I have no closure, and I think that's why I think about him all the. I have been on and off with my ex for 5 years. My ex and I broke up 1 and a half year ago. You are on my mind; please know that I am here for you if you need help. At first it was really raw and every day, even though I broke up with him to be with the man who is now my DH. We separated after 2 years of marriage and were divorced for a year before getting remarried. One of the truth was a question to one of my best friends “who do you think is the sexiest person in the room”. Women can never stop thinking about an ex because the hate feeling like they were used when if fact it was probably the other way around. I was so frustrated that I was obsessing about him from that point on so I went to a therapist. This is a dangerous behavior because it can turn compulsive fast. In the past month or so, I let loose and have begun to question; WHY?. We didn't even stare at each others eyes. How to Respond and Act When Your Ex Suddenly Contacts You Again. It's not unheard of for a couple to get back together after they've taken time away from each other, so don't give up. American Guild of Organists 475 Riverside Drive, Suite 1260 New York, NY 10115 Phone: 212-870-2310 Email: [email protected] She has already moved on and is in another relationship. i dream about my high school boyfriend every at least 3 nights out of the week. My guidance counselor makes my schedule with my mom. She was able to save my ovaries but I wish she would have taken them. Insecurities From The Past I'm 23 and about a year ago I gave birth to my first child. How To Take The Last Step of Getting Over Your Ex. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 5months ago we were toghter for over a year and since then i have been in a very perfect realtionship with someone else, but everynight for the past 2 weeks i been having dreams of my ex boyfriend. I searched my motives and determined they were clean. One year ago, in the middle of the night I had my first outburst. I did not report it back then because I was being brainwashed by my abuser. Deputy Secretary of State John Sullivan told lawmakers Wednesday that he was aware of a “campaign” against the former U. Welcome to “Try Me. Before marrying my man, I thought it will be okay, that his ex has her own world and would rather be on her own. She would constantly leave me, make me beg, then come back promising me the world and how I was the love of her life she wanted to get married, have babies etc. You see your life now and because you're not satisfied or bored, you start to imagine, and suddenly you go into your memory for something you crave. I think she has moved on but I am still in the past. I have been with my wife for 19 years. Do I deserve to suffer the rest of my life? What more can society take from me? I have already lost everything over thisa crime that happened over 15 years ago. My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. Ever since then,I have been hooked on dating or f***** married women, especially white women. I had not seen him in probably 30 years, and not spoken to him in over 35 years. Even if many years have passed. Of course I was clueless to what was actually going on uncontrollable shaking fever up to 103. I was married in a Catholic Church 15 years ago and we divorced about 8 years ago, we had 1 child. He broke up with me almost 2 years ago because I showed my face on the camera a lot for other men to view, this is what he just told me why he broke up with me, this made him very upset and made the decision. My first girlfriend has emailed me after 20 years and I'm in turmoil That was 20 years ago. In oct 2008 she lost her job and i started paying half the mortgage payment. Women can never stop thinking about an ex because the hate feeling like they were used when if fact it was probably the other way around. i recently broke up with my GF about a month ago and i’ve been having strange dreams and nightmares, and am having hard time at the moment. I recently have been thinking about my ex again, I broke up with him a year before I met my current boyfriend, I thought he (the ex) was the love of my life (maybe he was at. And why that relationship may have been just as intense as you remember. hey i am respondeing to email the lady wrote about her tubes being tied and thinks she is pregant. What I think is so odd, is that he is the only ex I dream of in that way, and we were only together for a little over a year. The strange collaboration between Metallica and Lou Reed on the artsy, outré, double-album Lulu remains as perplexing today as polarizing. I e-mail my first love a little, but keep it light. A lot of us may have asked the question, "Why am I thinking about my ex?" either to ourselves or to someone we trust. I wanted to know why it is so wrong when you forgive a person and you become best friends again and both of us have changed with time and we are older, wiser and tired.